Sometimes when I see things on the internet, I think to myself, "I bet a lot of people would probably think this is pretty cool" -- then there are times when I see things being shared by every female in my Facebook news feed, and I think to myself, "I KNOW a lot of people (especially women in this case) would probably think this is cool."

To keep it short and sweet, this is a list of things written by Salma Rumman found on the Divine Caroline website. It's simply titled "What A Man Wants", and Salma writes that it is advice that was passed along to her from a counselor, so she is sharing it for all to have. Enjoy, and pay it forward by passing it along too.

 

What A Man Wants (by Salma Rumman)

 

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

 

If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

 

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

 

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

 

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

 

Slower is better.

 

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

 

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve

 

then heck no, you can’t "be friends."

 

A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

 

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

 

Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself

 

a year later for staying when things are not better.

 

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

 

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

 

He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,

 

Why would he treat you any differently?

Click HERE to see the rest via Divine Caroline now!