“If A Man Wants You” — Good Advice For All Women To Live By
Sometimes when I see things on the internet, I think to myself, “I bet a lot of people would probably think this is pretty cool” — then there are times when I see things being shared by every female in my Facebook news feed, and I think to myself, “I KNOW a lot of people (especially women in this case) would probably think this is cool.”
To keep it short and sweet, this is a list of things written by Salma Rumman found on the Divine Caroline website. It’s simply titled “What A Man Wants”, and Salma writes that it is advice that was passed along to her from a counselor, so she is sharing it for all to have. Enjoy, and pay it forward by passing it along too.
What A Man Wants (by Salma Rumman)
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?